by Nana Jay
My situation is a little different than most. My partner Jo is a woman and is a Methodist Minister. We live in a beautiful church house and are able to continue our work with needy children. Three of our children were in care with us as babies, one was only 2 hours old when we got him at 5 oâ€™clock in the morning. He will be 2 years old this month. We also have his sister who is 8 years old and has a brain injury from being a shaken baby. Also a 10 year old Jo had from 3 months old.
We have permanent care of them and that is wonderful for us and for security for them. We also have a wee baby girl we got three months ago when she was 3 days old. She may be long term or possibly permanent too.
I have eight grandchildren, from age one to fourteen years old.
My son has 4 boys and a darling little girl, so much wanted.
My daughter has a neat son and two little beautiful wee girls.
My former husband is one of our greatest supporters, he comes over for roasts,home made soup and baking and is a great role model for the children. We were married 28 years.
Russell has always supported my work in the community for 30
years. Fostering is just another part of my committment to children with special needs.The children here call me Nana Jay, and Jo Mummy Jo and it works well. Altogether in the six years we have been together, we have cared for over 50 children.
There have been many heartbreaks but lots of success in having
children returned home too. Most of the young Mothers had been in
Foster Care themselves,and never knew about being nurtured or loved
themselves. They then were unable to give their children what they
needed,and they were taken into care. We have got God-Children and many Mums that have had their children returned with love and support.
Sadly, some children are a third generation of being in care and we must try to break the cycle. This is our commitment.
Thank you for showing an interest in our journey and the power of
Grandparents to make a difference.
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